Do not grieve or quench the Holy Spirit.

He came to you because you asked him to come. Luke 11:13

The Holy Spirit will do his part if you do yours.

If not, he will leave.

-- do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God --- Ephesians 4:30

-- do not quench the Holy Spirit --- 1 Thessalonians 5:19

The fact that the Holy Spirit can be grieved or quenched indicates that he will come and dwell within you.

. Revelation 3:20 KJV
[20] Behold, I stand at the door, and knock: if any man hear my voice, and open the door, I will come in to him, and will sup with him, and he with me.

When Jesus knocked on your door and you opened the door then Jesus sent the Comforter to dwell with you and in you.

John 14:15-21 KJV
[15] If ye love me, keep my commandments. [16] And I will pray the Father, and he shall give you another Comforter, that he may abide with you for ever; [17] Even the Spirit of truth; whom the world cannot receive, because it seeth him not, neither knoweth him: but ye know him; for he dwelleth with you, and shall be in you. [18] I will not leave you comfortless: I will come to you. [19] Yet a little while, and the world seeth me no more; but ye see me: because I live, ye shall live also. [20] At that day ye shall know that I am in my Father, and ye in me, and I in you. [21] He that hath my commandments, and keepeth them, he it is that loveth me: and he that loveth me shall be loved of my Father, and I will love him, and will manifest myself to him.

The Holy Spirit is capable of being grieved or quenced when he sees you are not doing your part, and then he will leave.

Romans 8:11 KJV
[11] But if the Spirit of him that raised up Jesus from the dead dwell in you, he that raised up Christ from the dead shall also quicken your mortal bodies by his Spirit that dwelleth in you.

Without the Spirit of God dwelling within you, you will not be raised to life on the last day, the day of the Lord.